How to Get a Girlfriend Using Online Dating Services

Enter the Online Dating Service Age to Get a Girlfriend - In my previous post, I have also briefly talked about how you should busy yourself so as to forget your ex-girlfriend as well as to spend more time with other people such as your friends and family. Of course, you should not forget about making new friends (expecially girls who can later become your girlfriends) and I have briefly touched on the use of the internet these days to get a girlfriend.

How can one use the internet to learn how to get a girlfriend, you might ask? First of all, if you are reading this "How to Get a Girlfriend" blog now, this means that you are using the internet to increase your knowledge on how to get a girlfriend! The internet is also the tool which I use to communicate with those who are in need of help to find or get a girlfriend. Of course, this is not the focus of this post of mine.

With the advent of the internet, a new industry of online dating services was then sprung. It is the information age now, people halfway across the world are able to communicate with somebody else on this side of the world. They use instant messaging or emails, mails that do not need the use of stamps or envelopes. Then there are people who talk to each other over the internet, with the use of webcams too, so that they can see each other while they speak into microphones. Some online dating services make use of these high tech equipment, but then since most of the online dating services focus on getting you a girlfriend or boyfriend in the nearby vicinity or locality, this is less prevalent. Though it will not stop people from making new boyfriends or girlfriends several thousand miles away! These are called long distance relationships, and with globalisation (that means the world is getting smaller and more people travel frequently across the globe and work at more than one place), long distance relationships are becoming more and more popular.

This post is not about long distance relationships though, but I may be writing about that in the future. Long distance relationships are tough but not impossible, and it really requires a lot of patience, endurance, trust and committment. Anyway, this post is about how you can get a girlfriend using online dating services. Online dating services are online websites that a person can go to to register. Most of these online dating services are FREE. Once you register and create a profile, you can set some parameters and search through the other profiles to find some people which you may be interested in. I will detail a step by step run through on how you can get a girlfriend using online dating services subsequently in this post.

Anyway, online dating services are free but sometimes you may be restricted to certain features within the online dating service. For example, some online dating services may restrict the number of times you may communicate or email with a prospect. After a certain number or emails, you are unable to correspond with the person anymore. Sometimes, premium members, that is members who have actually paid a sum of money to the online dating service, are given enhanced features to toy with, say maybe they can use the forum etc. I will run through some good dating services in my future posts, so do look out for them on my How to Get a Girlfriend Easy blog!

Now, let me do a quick run through on how you can get a girlfriend using online dating services. These dating services are mainly meant for singles who are looking for a girlfriend or boyfriend, but you can really be surprised what kind of people actually lurk in these online dating sites and what motives they are actually up to! So before you actually venture into such online dating services, let me warn you of some of the dangers. Do not give out any of your personal particulars to anyone online! You do not know who to trust and everybody online should be treated as strangers. Only agree to meet somebody you know from an online dating website after you have corresponded with him or her for a sufficient amount of time, say for a few months (preferably the longer the better, I would recommend a period of 6 months). If you are unsure, or if you are still quite young, I would recommend that you do not meet anybody online (even if you want to tell your parents they may not agree too).

Right now online dating services offer everybody a good way to make and meet new friends or find a potential partner, hence why I say you can use a dating service to get a girlfriend. Using such services is quick and easy, especially if you are tech savvy. All you need is a computer, an Internet connection, an email address and a photo (a photo is optional because you do not need people to know how you look like to make friends with you but a profile without a photo is usually not very popular).

Once you have in your hands these simple requirements, you would be able to register for a profile at a simple online dating service. You are right on your way to get a girlfriend using an online dating service and to find that perfect match!

Step 1: Selecting the right Online Dating Agency

How do you get a girlfriend if you do not even have an online dating service in mind? So first of all, it is important that you find an online dating service or agency that you think would best serve your needs. Some of the questions you might want to ask yourself are if you are looking for a free online dating service or a paid one? If this is the first online dating agency that you are signing up for, I would suggest that you register for a free one first. Then you have to think about which kind of girls or friends you are interested to get to know. Are they living in the same area as you? Some online dating websites are more for those looking for girlfriends or just friends in the nearby vicinity. Are you looking for a girlfriend who shares the same religion as you? Some online dating agencies only accept membership for certain groups or races, hence people who have certain requirements for their girlfriends can go to such online dating sites. With the large number of online dating agencies available on the internet, I am sure that you would be able to find out that you like. As I have already mentioned, it would be best that you register for a free online dating service first before going for something that requires money. In my subsequent posts, I will introduce some online dating sites that are worth trying.

Step 2: Registering for an account or profile

Once you have found an online dating service that you are interested to sign up for, please go ahead to register an account under the online dating service and to create a profile. If you signing up for a service that requries payment, this is usually when you have to pay before the profile can be created. It is relatively easy to set up an account. The online dating service would usually ask for your personal information such as your name, email, or maybe your physical address etc. I would suggest that you use a pseudonym. Best not to use your real name. Even if the physical address is required, do not use your real address. As for the email address, you can register for a free email address under one of many internet service providers, such as gmail, yahoo mail or hotmail/msn live emails. If they ask for a photo, like I already mentioned, it is up to you whether you would want to put a photo but profiles with photos attract more viewership. Having a photo also shows that you are sincere in making friends. When you have created a profile, the online dating service would usually ask you to provide a username and password. For this, you can be creative and come up with something weird or plain.

Step 3: Filling Up Your Profile

Now that you have got an account and a profile set up, it is time for you to complete your profile by providing additional information about yourself such as your likes, dislikes, interests, hobbies etc. These details are to allow other people to browse and see if there are any common interest and hobbies. If they see something that they like, they can then proceed to the next step which is to contact you. For these information and questions, it is best that you be as honest and truthful as possible. No harm revealing what you like or dislike or your hobbies here (unless they are creepy stuff! but maybe you will attract the right crowd). For some online dating agencies, they may also ask you to fill up details about the type of person you want to meet or are looking for online. This will allow the online dating agency to do some matching and bring the right people together. You are now one step closer to getting that hot girlfriend!

Step 4: Start Making New Friends!

Browse through the profiles to look for individuals who share the same interests or hobbies as you. Basically, anybody whom you find attractive or compatible can be considered a potential girlfriend! Therefore finding a girlfriend online through an online dating service is definitely one of the easiest ways to get a girlfriend easy! When you have chosen one or a few potential individuals, start communicating with by sending emails through the online dating service. Some online dating services even allow you to use instant messaging with other people! I will introduce to you some good online dating websites in my future posts. Now just spend some time exploring the online dating agency and get to know as many people as you can handle (making sure that you are able to pay attention to all of them without forgeting their details when corresponding with them). This is done repeatedly until you can really find some people that you can click with and probably have the "feel" for. Once you know some of these people for a good length of time, you can ask them out for a date (that is if they are not staying half a globe away). Do not lose hope if you find it difficult to find someone who matches your requirements. Do know that looks is not everything, you might want to rethink your requirements if most of the candidates online do not meet them! Then again, be prepared for fake accounts, where people might not fill in real information and might be using fake photos.

Now wasn't that simple? In just 4 easy steps, I have actually shown you how to get a girlfriend using an online dating service. This seriously is a good tip on how to get a girlfriend. In my subsequent posts, I will introduce some good online dating services that you can try out which are absolutely FREE. So keep an open mind and very soon you would have found your perfect match. Till next time, tune in to my Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend Easy Blog and do not forget to also check out my previous post where I have talked about how to get over a girlfriend.

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